Basic Questions & Answers About Good
Parenting
Q: Exactly what is parenting?
A: Parenting is the most important job in today’s
world. As a parent, you provide a safe, secure and nurturing
environment for your child. Parenting requires time,
attention, patience, strength and most of all, love.
Q: Is good parenting natural?
A: Parenting skills do not come naturally; time,
experience, and an openness to learn help make a good parent.
Some people find it easier than others to develop parenting skills,
but everyone can become a good parent.
Q: Does a parent’s role change?
A: Yes. The role of a parent changes
as a child grows. Infants and toddlers need nurturing,
protection and guidance. As a child grows older, a parent’s
role expands to include teaching and counseling. As a child
matures, the parent’s most important role is to prepare the child
for independence.
Q: What do children need from parents?
A: A child needs a basis for the following:
- Good Physical Health (proper nutrition, shelter, sleep,
exercise, medical care)
- Good Emotional Health (love, acceptance, security, praise)
- Good Mental Health (social opportunities, open communication,
education, encouragement of creativity, learning aids)
Q: How can I improve as a parent?
A: Learning to be a good parent is an ongoing
process. Seek out information by talking to other parents,
attending parenting classes, reading books and magazines, viewing
videos as well as TV and radio programs. The internet is also
a good source. If you still have some uncertainties, consult
a professional who specializes in working with parents and
children.
